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You are butterfly!
No I am not last time I looked anyway.
Yes you are butterfly mak ma!

Well nothing to worry about you have just been recognized as a player and running around with to many girls in Thailand. Even if the girls telling you this are major bar girls you are still the bad guy in this race. Even if she runs from guy to guy you will always be the butterfly in Thailand and there is nothing you can do about it. The only thing you can do is call her an airport and laugh about it.

When you date a girl in Thailand don’t expect her to just date you and even if you ask her if she is dating any other guy she will say no. But then she will have 20 phone calls and still denies they are dates just boy friends. If you really like this girl you need to mark your territory and declare her an Girl friend before some one else do. Even then there will be phone calls but then at least you can demand them to stop or break up with her. But don’t expect your phone calls to be as smooth as hers she will demand to know who, why and when. So the best tactic for this is denial do not tell her anything you will regret it. Just copy her method deny deny deny until you are boyfriend a girlfriend.

As you all know I was married before and I met my Thai wife online actually. I was having a quite evening home and I had my chat on in ChatThailand.com and I said as a headline who wrote I am a superstar. Suddenly she popped up and told me some groups that could have made the song but even if it was not correct she was funny to talk to. I was bored of all the girls in the disco and I was not actually looking for a girlfriend but I guess I got one anyway.
She moved into to my place within 7 days I think and we got married after 1 year not so much we believed in marriage but because of the Visa for Thailand. I guess it was the best girlfriend I had in Thailand because we stayed together for 4 years and we had lots of fun time. But all fun must have an end and now we separated she moved out, we had too much fighting and for all I know she met another guy online and they are now happy I guess.

I still date a little bit online when I have time. But I am even more selective when it comes to online dating. I have a profile in Chat Thailand and some other sites and I some time go to dates but the problem with Thai girls is that they all write the same thing that they are happy cooking, listen to music, go to movies its all the same I wish they understand that all men does not want to hear that. It is like a stereo type of Thai girls and my ex wife did not say that and I think thats why I like her she had a personality outside the norm or now when I look back on it maybe it was a problem.

How to love a Thai girl? Well that’s a mystery. I just broke up with my wife or we not divorced yet but it is a big mess. From nice Thai girl she has become a danger for herself and others. She cut with all her friends and spends all her time with the new boy friend and she called me bossy?

I do not really want to start dating again because it take so long time to get up to phase. You have to go trough all this normal questions once more and you think it is boring.

I meet a lot more girls now, I am single so maybe it is normal and they also have the same problem and I often help them with romance questions and I get my information mostly from reading books and the internet. But I can only help them with how western guys think for me there is no help there is not many that understand how Thai girls think even themselves.

I think Russian girls and Thai girls have a lot in common. They put the family first and the carer after. They do not rush to be a working women they want to create a family early in life and make sure the children and husband come first. This things make men from all over the world pick Russian girls instead of other western women. The fact that Russian girls look overall much better and do not care so much about age different is off course and another factor.

If you got tired of the Thai girls and want to try Russian girls then Thailand is a good place to meet them. There is hundreds of girls coming to Thailand everyday for holiday and why not meet one online and invite her over for a holiday in Thailand.